Every relationship has secret codes and messages.  It is a part communication that is vital to every relationship (since most communication is nonverbal).  Secret codes and messages can make a  relationship unique, special,  personal and  exciting.  They are mostly unspoken with looks, touch, sounds, movement,  moments, scents, and memories.  They are sensed even while you are apart.  Relationships are so powerful  because they originate in the spiritual world far beyond our understanding..   The scripture clearly speaks of the mystery in relationship.  Spiritual bonds that are consummated physically.   We are temples of the Holy Spirit ( I Cor 6:15-20)    “and the two shall be come one”!

Eph. 5:29  For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourishes and cherishes it, even as the Lord the church: 31 For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh. … 32  This is a profound mystery—but I am talking about Christ and the church.

We pass these messages for many reasons. They can be positive or negative.  They are opportunities to strengthen a relationship, to learn cues to minister to a need and or  learn about partner or self.

There are moments when that I am sure my partner is sharing message with me even when we are apart.  It could be one of us is praying for the other.  It could be a time of day that triggers a memory.   We have sensed each others heart..

Codes are always being developed over time, but you can speed them up.  You can create more  love signals to enrich your relationship. Your can purpose to grow messages of  love and care that will enrich and provide relief during hard times.   It’s easy!

How?  ” The eye is the lamp of the body”   Mt 6:22 .

Every day this week speak messages of love to your partner through your eyes. Don’t “settle”  into the same old, same old.    Look for new moments of opportunity.    Send messages from your heart.  They grow !